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Formal Disclosures

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1. Standard Pathway (6–10 Weeks of Preparation + Disclosure Day)

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A paced, steady process with weekly support

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This pathway is ideal for couples who want time to prepare emotionally and practically for the disclosure, while continuing in their regular routines.

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How It Works

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Phase 1: Individual Preparation (Approx. 6–8 Weeks)

Each partner is assigned their own therapist.

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The Disclosing Partner works with their therapist to:

  • Develop a complete written disclosure document

  • Identify all relevant deceptions and behaviors

  • Understand what true accountability requires

  • Prepare to share the information in a grounded, compassionate way

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The Betrayed Partner works with their therapist to:

  • Create a question list outlining what they need answered

  • Learn stabilization and grounding strategies

  • Prepare emotionally for the impact of receiving the full truth

  • Build a plan for support during and after the disclosure

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Phase 2: Therapist Review & Coordination

The two therapists collaborate to ensure the disclosure document is complete, sensitive, and clinically appropriate.

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Phase 3: Disclosure Session (2–4 Hours)

Both partners and both therapists meet together.


In a structured and contained session:

  • The disclosing partner reads the final disclosure document

  • The betrayed partner receives answers to their questions

  • Both therapists provide support, regulation, and pacing

  • Couples begin identifying next steps for healing and reconnection

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This pathway typically takes about two months from start to disclosure day, depending on scheduling and clinical needs.

2. Intensive Disclosure Pathway (2–3 Full Days, In-Person)

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A focused, immersive option for couples seeking an accelerated process

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For some couples, setting aside dedicated time allows them to complete the entire disclosure process more quickly, with continued support throughout.

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How It Works

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Day 1: Preparation & Document Creation

  • The disclosing partner builds the full written disclosure with their therapist

  • The betrayed partner develops their question list and regulation plan

  • Both partners learn emotional stabilization strategies

  • Therapists coordinate to finalize the disclosure packet

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Day 2: Formal Disclosure Session

In a structured, 2–4 hour joint meeting:

  • The disclosing partner presents the completed disclosure

  • The betrayed partner receives the information with therapist support

  • The clinical team ensures grounding, pacing, and containment

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Day 3: Follow-Up, Stabilization & Aftercare Planning

This day focuses on:

  • Emotional processing

  • Re-establishing stability

  • Clarifying boundaries and expectations

  • Outlining next steps for relational healing

  • Setting aftercare therapy recommendations

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The intensive option provides a deeply supported environment with minimal interruption, often helping couples make meaningful progress in a shorter timeframe.

Optional Polygraph Services

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For couples who desire additional verification, we can coordinate with a trusted outside polygraph provider.


Polygraphs are not required and are always optional, but some couples find them helpful for building safety and trust.

Who Is This Process For?

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A Formal Disclosure may be appropriate if:

  • There has been sexual betrayal, infidelity, or secretive relationship behavior

  • The betrayed partner feels they do not know the full truth

  • Trust has been broken and cannot be rebuilt without complete clarity

  • Past disclosures have been incomplete, staggered, or chaotic

  • Both partners desire a structured, supported pathway to transparency

  • The relationship feels stuck after betrayal and needs a turning point

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Disclosure is not about punishment—it is about creating the truthful foundation required for genuine healing and long-term recovery.

Why Choose Pathway Therapy Center for Disclosure?

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Our team is uniquely trained to guide couples through this delicate process with:

  • CSAT and betrayal-trauma informed therapists

  • A two-therapist model for optimal safety and containment

  • Clear structure and pacing for both partners

  • Experience guiding hundreds of couples through recovery processes

  • A compassionate, non-shaming environment

  • An emphasis on long-term healing, not quick fixes

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Our goal is to support both partners—equally and safely—as they move through one of the most vulnerable, transformative processes a couple can undertake.

Next Steps:

Interested in Starting a Formal Disclosure?

If you would like to explore whether a Formal Disclosure is the right next step for your relationship, our team can help you determine:

  • Which pathway best fits your needs

  • What level of care is appropriate

  • How to begin the preparation process

Contact Pathway Therapy Center to schedule a consultation and start the path toward clarity, stability, and healing.

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